Thursday, March 28, 2013

Movie Review: Thirteen


Thirteen is one of my sister’s favorite movies, and I have seen it many times since we have it on DVD. The movie portrays many forms of addiction so I knew it would be easy to relate to class.

The main character, Tracy, is a seventh grade honors student, but she is considered a loser and is bullied by girls in her class. She wants to fit in and be popular, and she will do anything to achieve popularity. She is also coping with her parents’ divorce and the fact that her father is rarely around. Her mother is a recovering alcoholic and her mother’s boyfriend is a recovering cocaine addict. Tracy befriends a girl named Evie who becomes an extremely bad influence. The girls steal, do drugs together, smoke, drink, fight, and engage in sexual behaviors with many men. Tracy gives in to peer pressure to fit in, but she is still not happy with her life. At this point, she is about to fail her grade and her and her mother have an awful relationship. Along with doing drugs and drinking to cope, she starts the behavioral addictions of self-harm and anorexia. The movie follows Tracy’s struggle as a thirteen-year-old girl.


This video is the trailer to the film.

Because I’ve seen the movie so many times, the portrayal of addiction no longer shocks me. However, the first time I saw this movie a few years ago, I was extremely uncomfortable and honestly shocked. A thirteen year old should never be engaging in the activities that Tracy was. As a teen that went through a divorce myself, I have empathy for Tracy. Divorce is a lot to handle without trying to fit in at school. I have extreme anger towards Evie. I want to reach into the television and shake her. She is not only destroying her life, but she is taking Tracy down with her. Both of these girls need help from a counselor, and it hurts to know that they are not getting the help they desperately need. Thankfully this is just a movie, but unfortunately, girls like this do exist.

The other characters in the movie did not do much to help Tracy’s addictions. She did not have very supporting friends. Her friends before Evie are nowhere to be seen. Her mother can tell that there is something wrong with her daughter, but she is too busy with her job and boyfriend to notice how extreme the problems are. She also pushes her daughter away by constantly yelling at her. Tracy’s mother needed to pay more attention to her daughter and have better communication. At one point in the film, she asks Tracy's if she ate that day. They end up fighting and Tracy’s mom does not find out that Tracy has an eating disorder. The household also lacks discipline. Tracy's father is never around and is completely clueless. Tracy’s brother knows that she is doing drugs and drinking, but doesn’t say anything to their mother because he is getting high with his friends too. Evie supports and influences Tracy’s addictions.

I believe that this movie depicts addiction pretty accurately. Many teens experiment with alcohol and drugs while giving into peer pressure.  Cutting, a behavioral addiction is also shown in this film. Teen girls who struggle with depression and big life changes like divorce often resort to self-harm to deal with their emotions. Parents of teens who suffer with these addictions do not always recognize the problems. Nothing in the movie struck me as unrealistic.

It was easy to make connections between this movie and knowledge I learned in class and through assigned readings. The movie shows how addictions impact all aspects of someone’s life. Addictions can affect relationships and interfere with daily living. Tracy has weakened relationships with her family. She is usually angry and her mother is angry with her on multiple occasions. Tracy is struggling in many aspects. She is failing out of school and engages in risky behaviors. We recently learned about how people, places, and things can trigger addiction. Evie is a trigger for Tracy. At the end of the movie, Tracy and Evie are no longer friends. This will largely help Tracy recover and turn her life around. 

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